Being a mother to me is still being dominant. I am in control of what they do day to day. NO one says loving and hugging your children makes you less dominant. In my eyes being pregnant is a greater reason for a sub to serve my every whim. As I am exploring my Lactation fetish, offering myself as a wet nurse doesn't make me submissive. I don't want to be suckled, I want to humiliate you by squirting you in the face :). I enjoy the discipline it takes to maintain and increase ones milk supply. It makes me happy. Some confuse kinky with it always being linked to sex. Although my nipples are more sensitive and its sensitivity plays a role in sex that is not why I enjoy lactation. I enjoy a grown man suckling from time to time because I revel in his reversion to a child like submissive state. I have learned to control my flow to an extent. Just thinking about lactating induces let-down.